General audience: the dignity of marriage
Vatican City, 29 April 2015 (VIS) – Following last
Wednesday's catechesis on God's original plan for man and woman as a
couple, the Pope spoke at today's general audience about marriage,
recalling that Jesus' first miracle took place during the wedding at
Cana, when He transformed water into wine and thus ensured that the
celebrations could take place. “This fact reminds us of Genesis, when
God completed His creation with his masterpiece: man and woman”, he
said. “And Jesus began His miracles with this masterpiece, in marriage. …
Thus Jesus teaches us that the masterpiece of society is the family:
the man and the woman who love each other. ... Since that time, many
things have changed but that 'sign' of Christ contains a message that
remains valid”.
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“Nowadays it does not seem easy to describe marriage as a
celebration that is renewed over time, in the different seasons in the
entire life of spouses. It is a fact that fewer people marry. Instead,
in many countries the number of separations is increasing, while the
number of children is in decline. The difficulty of staying together –
both as a couple and as a family – leads to bonds being broken with
increasing frequency and rapidity. … In effect, many young people are
led to give up the plan of an irrevocable bond and a lasting family.
There is a kind of culture of the provisional: everything is temporary,
and it seems that nothing is permanent”.
For this reason, the Pope continued, one of the questions
we must face nowadays is why young people do not choose to get married,
and seem to have little confidence in marriage and in the family. “The
difficulties are not only of an economic nature, although these are very
important”, he observed. “Many people believe that the change that has
taken place in recent decades was set in motion by the emancipation of
women. But this argument is not valid either. It is an insult, a form of
misogyny that seeks to subjugate women. If men behave in this way, we
are like Adam, when God asked him who had eaten the fruit of the tree,
and he said that the woman gave it to him”.
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“In reality, almost all men and women would prefer
emotional security in the form of a solid marriage and a happy family …
but, for fear of failure, many do not even want to think about it. …
Perhaps it is precisely that fear of failure that is the greatest
obstacle to receiving the word of Christ, Who promises His grace to the
matrimonial union and to the family”. However, “marriage consecrated by
God preserves that bond between man and woman that God has blessed ever
since the creation of the world; and it is a source of peace and good
for all married and family life. For example, in the early times of
Christianity, this great dignity of the bond between man and woman
defeated an abuse considered to be entirely normal in those times, that
is, the right of husbands to repudiate their wives, even for the most
specious and humiliating reasons. The Gospel, the Gospel that announces
this sacrament, ended this culture of habitual
repudiation”.
“The Christian seed of radical equality between spouses
must bear new fruit today”, emphasised the Holy Father. “The witness of
the social dignity of marriage will become persuasive, the witness of
reciprocity between husband and wife, of complementarity. .. And as
Christians we must become more demanding in this respect. For example,
in decisively supporting equal pay for equal work: inequality is a
scandal. Why is it taken for granted that women should earn less than
men? No! They have the same rights. At the same time, the maternity of
women and the paternity of men should be recognised as a richness that
remains valid, especially for the benefit of children. Equally, the
virtue of hospitality in Christian families today retains a crucial
importance, especially in situations of poverty, degradation and
domestic violence”.
“Do not be afraid of inviting Jesus to the wedding
celebrations! And also His Mother Mary!” exclaimed Pope Francis.
“Christians, when they marry 'in the Lord', are transformed into an
effective sign of God's love. Christians do not marry only for
themselves: they marry in the Lord in favour of all the community, of
society as a whole”.
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