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We
can often assume that parenthood comes easily after “I do,” but for
many married couples, it does not. For some, the joy of conception never
happens. Others suffer repeated miscarriages. Still others experience
secondary infertility: after giving birth to one or more children, they
are unable to have another. Infertility can be a profound cross for
couples desiring a child, and their suffering can become overwhelming.
Social media posts of pregnancies, baby announcements, or attending baby
showers may intensify the sense of being alone in their ache for a
child. The pursuit of ethical medical treatments in hopes of conceiving
can be physically and emotionally taxing and increase feelings of
isolation. However, it is estimated that as many as 1 in 6 couples will
struggle with infertility, meaning that you or someone you know is
likely bearing this cross, often silently or without support.
We
can all find hope in the truth that God does not abandon us in our
suffering, even when we don’t understand His will. The Church desires to
walk with all those who bear the burden of infertility. Pope St. John
Paul II clearly affirmed that couples who are unable to have children
are “no less loved by God; your love for each other is complete and
fruitful when it is open to others.” It is important that all couples
who experience infertility—and those who desire to offer them
support—know that their love is still fruitful
and their married life remains filled with meaning. We pray that
couples struggling with infertility would know Christ’s closeness in a
special way and be confident in His perfect will for their marriage and
family. May we strive to be channels of mercy to all who carry the cross
of infertility through our own awareness, sensitivity, and support.
Reflection adapted from “Seven Considerations While Navigating Infertility.”
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